Where the Dead Pause, and the Japanese Say Goodbye: A Journey (Paperback)
Marie Mutsuki Mockett's family has deep roots in Zen Buddhism and in the countryside so devastated by the 311 Tsunami/Fukushima disaster. Her story is takes us into Buddhism as it is llived and practiced in Japanese families. Bonds endure between the departed and those who remain. Beautiful.— From Karen
March '15 Indie Next List
“Mockett's journey begins in the wake of the 2011 earthquake and tsunami in Japan, near the site of the Fukushima Daiichi power plant, and encompasses a nation's grieving as well as her own. Through her beautiful descriptions of traditions, rituals, conversations, and quiet moments, she shows the nuances of a people picking up and moving on. By seeking out the cultural context of her subject's very human reactions and emotions, Mockett walks a fine line that globalization has tried to erase entirely, and our understanding of the events and their aftermath is richer for it.”
— Rachel Cass, Harvard Book Store, Cambridge, MA
“Read it. You will be uplifted.”—Ruth Ozeki, Zen priest, author of A Tale for the Time Being
Marie Mutsuki Mockett's family owns a Buddhist temple 25 miles from the Fukushima Daiichi nuclear power plant. In March 2011, after the earthquake and tsunami, radiation levels prohibited the burial of her Japanese grandfather's bones. As Japan mourned thousands of people lost in the disaster, Mockett also grieved for her American father, who had died unexpectedly.
Seeking consolation, Mockett is guided by a colorful cast of Zen priests and ordinary Japanese who perform rituals that disturb, haunt, and finally uplift her. Her journey leads her into the radiation zone in an intricate white hazmat suit; to Eiheiji, a school for Zen Buddhist monks; on a visit to a Crab Lady and Fuzzy-Headed Priest’s temple on Mount Doom; and into the "thick dark" of the subterranean labyrinth under Kiyomizu temple, among other twists and turns. From the ecstasy of a cherry blossom festival in the radiation zone to the ghosts inhabiting chopsticks, Mockett writes of both the earthly and the sublime with extraordinary sensitivity. Her unpretentious and engaging voice makes her the kind of companion a reader wants to stay with wherever she goes, even into the heart of grief itself.
About the Author
Marie Mutsuki Mockett’s novel Picking Bones from Ash was shortlisted for the 2010 Saroyan Prize and the Asian American Literary Awards for Fiction and was a finalist for the Paterson Prize. She has written for the New York Times, Salon, National Geographic, and other publications. She lives in San Francisco.
An intriguing . . . travelogue through a landscape of Japanese spiritual belief, with forays into history, folklore, and memoir. [Mockett] has the ability, fully available only to those on the margins, “to see through more than one set of eyes, if one learns to pay attention to one’s environment.” It is this gift of double-sightedness, of bringing to bear both the “dry” rationality of the West and the “sticky” sensibilities professed by the Japanese, that makes this the most interesting book so far to have come out of the disaster.
— Richard Lloyd Parry
A fascinating, wide-reaching exploration.
Affecting . . . effectively evokes the beauty of Japanese culture and the sorrow that swept the country in the tsunami’s wake.
Mockett skillfully knits together a portrait of loss and recovery, pulling together many individuals’ experience of grief into a collective search for peace.
An illuminating journey into grief and Japanese culture, a place that few would dare to venture.
Marie Mockett brought me into the high drama of the tsunami, through her most personal landscape, and into the awe of the eternal.
— Luis Alberto Urrea, Pulitzer Prize finalist for The Devil's Highway
This illuminating journey through loss, faith, and perseverance . . . gives the reader a rare view into one of the richest death cultures in the world.
Richly layered in culture and insight, Mockett takes us on a compelling and illuminating journey of the heart and soul.
— Gail Tsukiyama, author of A Hundred Flowers
A beautiful tale that is part evocative travelogue and part lyrical meditation on grief, this soulful and haunting book made me cry in a way I like to cry when reading a good book.
— Heidi W. Durrow, New York Times best-selling author of The Girl Who Fell from the Sky
What a remarkable and moving book about traveling from one land to another, and learning different ways of coming to terms with death amid life. Engrossing and powerful, it speaks volumes about the many ways people grieve and live.
— Will Schwalbe, author of the New York Times bestseller The End of Your Life Book Club